You gotta start somewhere . . .
So, here goes. I’m Adley, and this is my blog. While this blog may touch on a variety of topics, it’s primarily about sex. Kinky sex, at that. Not because I’m funny or filthy or anything of that nature. (Though I may be either or both, depending on your point of view.) But because there aren’t many people I can talk to about . . . well, the way I am. Like the fact that I like to tie up and spank boys. And dress them up as girls. And stick things in their . . . Well. You get the idea.
Why am I like this? I don’t know. I didn’t even know I was like this until a little over a year ago, when I hooked up with Cavin – who (lucky me!) likes to take what I’m dishin’ out. But in retrospect, the signs were always there. Like when, as a kid, I’d arrive home with a new mystery story hot off the presses and start flipping through eagerly in search of bondage scenes (hopefully with illustrations!). Or when I got a bit older, and such scenes (definitely with illustrations!) began popping up in my own compositions. Or when I got even older than that, and began to notice a certain slant in my preferences when it came to erotic materials . . . As long as somebody young and cute was getting tied up and taken, boy or girl, it didn’t matter; I was a happy lady.
Anyway, needless to say, it’s taken some time for me to become comfortable with my sexual preferences. After all, I grew up in the Bible belt, where if anyone’s supposed to submit it’s the chick – and sexual self-knowledge in general is not exactly encouraged. Hell, I’m still conflicted at times over some of the things that churn my butter . . . So for those of you subs who think a domme is, by def, 100% self-confidence, get over it! We’re human. We’re allowed to doubt ourselves too . . .
Anyway, tangents aside, there you have it. This is a blog about me, Adley, exploring my sexual preferences . . . and about domination and submission in general. It’s my way not only of getting to know myself but of reaching out to others of like mind for feedback, sharing, and discussion.
Aaand that’s all for this post. Something more interesting, perhaps, next time . . . ^^
